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is The Story of Torrance
His parents, Raymond and Carol, coached
him three hours a day, every weekday, for seven years. They
spent weekends tailoring materials to fit the special needs
of their “learning disabled” child who could not
learn in school despite his high IQ. Their teamwork and total
dedication paid off: Torrance achieved sterling results all
the way from P4 to Secondary 4. Today he is a first-year media
design student at Nanyang Polytechnic.
Torrance was a very cute
boy who started reading when he was a toddler. He loved reading
science books. He loved drawing but disliked copying. He was
never able to copy without making
mistakes. He was careless, easily distracted, fidgety and
hopelessly disorganized in whatever he did. At times, he was
impulsive and even argued with teachers.
The most annoying traits are his short attention
span and his inability to retain for long what he is taught.
He is weak in sequencing, logic, comprehension and Chinese,
but exceptionally good at IQ puzzles. While he is quite bright
and creative in some areas, his inability to take instructions
and copy from the board, and the constant loss of stationery,
books and notices from school, so perplexed us that we were
prompted to seek specialist help.
Torrance was finally diagnosed in Primary
4 as a child with mixed developmental disorder with motor
skill problem and traces of autism. Like many parents, we
initially refused to accept his disability. Similarly, many
teachers refused to accept or believe that he has a “real”
problem. One of his form teachers said that if having a short
attention span is ADD then half her class should also be labeled
ADD. Teachers tend to believe that the main problem with the
child is either discipline or attitude. Since Torrance was
a quiet dreamer, rather than a disruptive ADHD type, most
teachers just left him alone in his own world.
We sympathize with teachers who have to
teach and manage large classes of 40 pupils as well as handle
other administrative duties. We also accept some teachers’
contention that they are not trained to teach/handle ADHD
kids. That, however, does not help us at all. Our son seemed
to be learning very little at school despite his high IQ.
As we were unable to muster much help within
the school system and since my child appeared not to learn
in a classroom environment, my wife and I decided to take
Torrance’s education into our own hands. It was a formidable
task. We had to custom design lessons and coach him daily
for up to 3 hours after school each day. In
other words, we were effectively doing home schooling. However
Torrance had to spend another 5 to 6 hours in school every
day so that he could qualify for the open exams (and the relevant
certificates). Since he did well in the exams, his teachers
did not bother with whether or not he did the assigned homework.
Torrance works twice, if not three times,
as hard as any “normal” child under our tutelage.
Our efforts paid off. He scored Band 1’s from P4 to
P6 and was in the EM1 stream. He scored A*s and As in his
PSLE. He went on to Express science stream in secondary school.
Today he is a media design student at Nanyang
Polytechnic.
The academic aspects of our son’s problem took up so
much of our time and energy that we could not put as much
effort as we would have liked with his social skill development.
Torrance remains a loner who finds great difficulty working
in a team. Hence, the new emphasis on teamwork and the fact
that substantial weightage of the student’s grades now
comes from daily assignments, project work and weekly test
means that hard work under home tutelage, no matter how effective,
is no longer sufficient to earn him very good grades.
The already uneven playing field is now
slanted even more against children with learning or other
disabilities. We would like to share our experience and strategies
in coaching our son for the benefit of other parents with
ADD/ADHD kids.
Flash cards
- Print/write problems on palm-sized
cards with
solutions or answers on the reverse.
- Flash the cards to the child from
time to time.
- From our experience, this method
is especially useful for mathematics and helpful to those
children with short-term memory.
Visual aids
- Let the child choose his favourite
highlighters (the colours should appeal to him if they are
to work for him) and use them to highlight the
keywords or salient points. This will facilitate recall
before and during examinations. Mind-mapping may also help.
- For younger, visual or kinesthetic
children, we use objects which they can see and touch. For
example, in maths, we use the model or unity method.
- To further assist the child and
avoid tedium, do not insist on writing statements.
- For P5 and P6 students, allow
them to use calculator (or help them with one) when doing
long and difficult sums. After all, what we want them to
focus on are the conceptual understanding and processing
skills; the solutions will emerge naturally.
Audio aids
- Play the child’s favourite
light background music (not songs, lyrics may distract him).
This may help to calm some hyperactive children.
- Record difficult texts or passages
in cassettes and play them to the child before he sleeps
and into his sleep. This is particularly useful for learning
Mother Tongue. Research shows that this learning technique
directed at the subconscious level may help some children
who fail to concentrate during the day.
Chinese language
- My wife has been painstakingly
coaching our son in Chinese. She taught him the way to analyze
and memorize Chinese characters. This has, in turn, led
to phrases, idioms and so on. From being a very weak learner,
he progressed rapidly and was streamed into EM1 and studied
higher Chinese. In 2001, Torrance scored an A in Chinese
for his Sec 3 final exam. My wife put in endless effort
to motivate him to learn Mandarin. We watched with our sons
regularly Channel 8 serials, news, read Chinese newspapers,
magazines and even joke books. We discussed issues in Mandarin.
Structured learning
- Prepare tailored-made notes or
summaries (or flash cards) to reinforce the weak areas.
- Teach according to the child’s
ability. In my many years of tutoring experience, I have
observed that many parents buy the most challenging assessment
books in the hope that if their children can tackle the
harder problems they would be able to score higher marks.
However, when a child is constantly faced with difficult
and apparently insurmountable tasks, the child will soon
lose interest and may completely shut down.
- My suggestion is to give the child
breaks. During the intervals, give them IQ questions or
crack jokes. Break tasks into small bite-size pieces and
instruct the child to proceed one bite at a time.
Exams and tests
- Under the existing system, the
child must acquire reasonable accuracy and speed if he is
to do
well, hence it may be necessary to do assessment papers
even if the child already understands the concepts. The
quality, quantity and frequency of such practice papers
depend on the aptitude of
the child. The child should be briefed and the
questions discussed before doing the assessments. Without
proper input, what can we expect from
the output?
Piano/Organ
- Learning the keyboard will train
both the left and right brains. This may help some children
to increase their level of concentration.
Meditation
- Learning yoga, tai-chi,
aikido or other such meditative techniques will enhance
the child’s concentration.

Get The Right Balance
The extent of the nutritional
or biological imbalance in the body is an important factor
that will determine whether one can or cannot derive substantial
benefits from Neural Feedback Therapy, said Dr Kenneth Kang
who spoke at our monthly Parents Support Group meeting on
5 Jul 03.
Dr Kang’s initial interest in the
area relating to effects of nutritional imbalance came after
he discovered that some people benefited greatly from the
Neural Feedback Therapy, while others did not receive as much
benefits.
He stressed that the treatment of children
with ADHD or other learning disorders must be done at the
following four levels (in order of importance):
- Attain a biological balance within the
body through nutritional balance.
- Apply the relevant therapies for the particular
learning or other difficulties.
- Educate the parents and children on how
to better manage the difficulties encountered.
- Change the environment which the child
interacts with (e.g. school, society, etc.).
To check the nutritional
balance within the body, the following tests can be used:
food allergy test, hair analysis testing, urine analysis,
and blood analysis. Dr Kang’s experience is that hair
analysis testing gave him the most useful data on the state
of nutritional imbalance within a child with learning difficulties.
Hair analysis testing help provide useful and accurate information
of the nutritional problems (and even food allergies) encountered
by the child over a period of time that may not be easily
detected using blood or other forms of testing.
Dr Kang discussed the hair analysis results
of some children with learning difficulties during his sharing
session. He noted the accumulation of such toxic metals like
lead, mercury and copper in these children. The sources for
these toxic metals could come from fish, seafood, Chinese
medicine or the body’s inability to remove these toxic
substances from the body. Some of the problems could also
be created due to the lack or excess of certain substances
such as calcium and magnesium.
He then explained the effect of these metals
in behaviours. Inadequate levels of calcium and magnesium
in the body will result in the reduced ability of the child
to handle stress and other problems. Too much calcium and/or
magnesium in the body may retard the body’s metabolic
rate and cause the child to be lethargic and lack of motivation.
Excessive copper is also often found in children with reading
difficulties and other related problems. Zinc deficiencies
will results in white spots on the child’s fingernails.
Zinc and magnesium are also essential for the detoxification
of the body of various toxic substances. A lack of iron can
cause a child to habitually bit his nail or eat other non-food
items such as soil. Food allergies (to wheat, milk, etc.)
may also cause other nutritional imbalance in the body.
Those interested to know more about Neural
Feedback Therapy can find more information on these web-sites:
www.eegspectrum.com, www.eegresearch.com,
www.eegassociates.org.
The sharing session resulted in many parents
asking various questions, including the question of the cost
of a hair analysis. Dr Kang said that the standard rate was
$180 but offered to give discounts to SPARK. Those interested
can contact Dr Kang at 6823-5963. His office is at Spectrum
Learning, 583 Orchard Road, #16-01/#17-01 The Forum, Singapore
238884.
Dr Kenneth Kang, an educational psychologist
specialising in Neural Feedback Therapy, is the Principal
Consultant at Spectrum Learning. He has over 8 years experience
in treating children (and adults) with ADHD, autism, seizures,
conduct disorder, specific learning difficulties, minor traumatic
brain injury and Down Syndrome, using non-drug and non-invasive
techniques such as neural feedback therapy and nutritional
support.
This summary of the talk by Dr
Kang was reported by Lee Swee Huat.

Regulate your brain
frequency to
improve attention span and memory
Norman Tien, developer of
MathemaKids, a primary school mathematics programme and presenter
of the famous “Careless Mistakes Again” talk,
was our guest speaker for Aug 2003.
According to Norman, the core symptoms of ADHD, like inattention,
difficulty in regulating behaviours and emotions, and hyperactivity
are strikingly similar to symptoms caused by disrupted sleep
and sleep deprivation.
Norman also believes that belief is actually
more powerful than the effects of drugs as supported in experiments
proving the “placebo effect”. He stated an experiment
where people are actually given stimulants although told that
they are given sleeping pills and vice versa. The net results
is that the majority of the reported that the sleeping pills
did work although they were actually given stimulants.
Norman indicated that people with ADHD often have internal
dialogues with themselves and are frequent high-risk takers,
which led them to be more successful in occupations such as
inventors or entrepreneurs. He mentioned the case of Adam
Khoo, a successful businessman in Singapore who was kicked
out from school. Adam’s turning point was after attending
the super-teen camp.
Norman suggested that parents adopt a more
positive approach to help their child better cope with the
academic pressure in schools. For example, instead of saying
that your child has failed in a particular exam, it is better
to tell the child that he has not passed the exam yet. This
sets the expectation that the child is able to pass the exam
later.
Norman said that the human brain is more
active when a person sleeps. He highlighted that the following
are the different brain frequencies:
• Delta (Sleep)
• Theta (Day-dream)
• Alpha (REM Sleep)
• Beta (Awake for logical thoughts/reasoning)
• Gamma & K-Complex (depression/anxiety)
Norman mentioned that a short nap should
not take more than 25 minutes so that the brain will not get
into the delta stage where it is more difficult for a person
to wake up. Each cycle of sleep will last about 1.5 to 2 hours
depending on the individual (i.e. brain frequency changing
from alpha, to theta, to delta, to theta and then to alpha).
It is easy to wake up a person when he is in the alpha or
theta stage. Norman also mentioned that
the optimal temperature for the
function of the brain is 19 degrees Centigrade.
Norman mention that the brain of the average
ADHD child is more often at the theta stage (which people
practising yoga and meditation tries to achieve with some
effort) than at the beta stage which is required for the brain
to be more alert, pay attention and also make logical inference.
The trick is thus to train the ADHD child to bring his brain
frequency to the theta stage when concentration and logical
thinking is required.
Norman also mentions that a major cause
why children make careless mistakes is due to a “lack
of purpose” as seen from the child’s point of
view. The purpose for not making careless mistakes must often
be established first before the child is able to reduce the
number of careless mistakes made.
Norman also provides mathematics tuition
to individuals ($280 for four 1.5 hour sessions) or students
in group of up to 8 students.($160
for four 1.5 hour sessions. He can be contacted at normantien@pacific.net.sg
or h/p: 9382-4681.
During his mathematics tuition to individual
students, Norman focus on developing and reinforcing positive
“conditionings” that helps the child to develop
better study habits and thoughts, and also to extinguish negative
thoughts / conditioning that hinders the child in the process
of learning. He recommends that students come for individual
tuition first so that relevant “conditioning”
can be reinforced before the student join the tuition on a
group basis.
Norman Tien is a certified practitioner
in Behavioural Change and Sleep Mgmt. He has trained many
students, including those diagnosed with exam phobias and
learning disorders to get “A” for their exams.
He was also nominated in 2001 for the Singapore Innovation
Award.
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The
Missing Link
A child who holds
too much vitality,
A sense of itself and
its own right to be,
Must learn to subdue
and control its own force,
To bend and submit in society’s course.
Its instincts must twist,
its nature must turn,
The object of course it simply must learn,
The child who is not
of the usual mould
Bears a heart in conflict
of all it is told,
And the magic expression
of all it has brought,
Becomes hidden and lost
by all it is taught,
I cry for the child whose
mind cannot bend,
Whose will is its own right through to the end,
Yet the rhythm of life beats more strongly in these,
Than any I’ve met who too willingly please,
Society’s needs are those trained and compliant,
It has too little room for
the self-reliant,
These children whose
minds are simply too strong,
Must be told many times
that they too belong,
Before their sense of worth becomes irretrievably lost,
And we pay the price at society’s cost,
One more delinquent, one more disturbed mind,
Because no one finds space for a child of this kind.
Norma Tyler,
mother of Spark member Natasha Lai, who was moved to write
this after listening to Adrian Tan describe his experience
growing up
with ADHD at one of Spark’s monthly meeting earlier
this year.

Where else can I get help?
For a start, go to our website at www.spark.org.sg.
It may not be the most up-to-date but we try our best. Let
us know if you can think of ways to make it better.
Or join the ADHD_Singapore mailing group.
To subscribe, send an empty email to ADHD_Singapore-subscribe@yahoogroups.com.
Share your problems and solutions relating to ADHD at this
mailing group.
Other useful overseas websites are www.chadd.com
and www.ldonline.com.

Talk for free
Spark offers a 1-hour talk for teachers
and invited parents at your child’s school to introduce
the subject of ADHD to teachers.
The talk covers basic strategies for managing
ADHD children in large classes. It is part of our modest effort
to try and raise awareness among teachers of the problem.
So if your ADHD child has problems in school
and you think it would help if his teachers knew something
about ADHD, approach the principal and tell him or her of
this offer of a free talk by Spark.
If the school agrees to invite Spark, get
a date and time and contact Cheng Kah Kee at 64582298, 96150073
or chengk2@singnet.com.sg
with the details.

I’m Not Naughty:
The Handbook
Spark has also produced
another I’m Not Naughty
publication. It is a handbook written by Lee Swee Huat, a
committee member. The long title is I’m Not Naughty:
A Handbook on Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
for Parents, Care-Givers and Teachers.
It’s for parents who have just found
out their child is ADD or ADHD (what’s the difference?)
or do not have the time to read all the books.
Apart from telling you the difference between
ADD and ADHD, it has chapters like What can be done to help
ADHD children.
It costs only $5 each. Why not buy one for
yourself and one for your child’s teacher?
To buy, contact Cheng Kah Kee at 64582298,
96150073 or chengk2@singnet.com.sg.

I’m Not Naughty:
The CD-ROM for teachers

Another
I’m Not Naughty
product is a CD-ROM for
teachers based on the talk given by Cheng Kah Kee, our former
treasurer and now one of our committee members. It is called
I’m Not Naughty: Managing the ADHD Child in Class.
It also costs only $5 each. Why not buy
five, one for each of your child’s teachers? Also from
Kah Kee.

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